Some people's priorities sometimes suprised you.
Seems like you've known them forever, but then, when things happened, you would learn that most of them have changed. Their respond and action DO suprised you.
You were expecting them to act A, instead, it was a B.
Worse case scenario, they didn't even do a thing about it. Until you asked them, and then they respond, like they care.

And then, you are left with disappointment.